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Lucy Spratt
May 16, 2022
In Narcissistic Abuse Discussions
I spent 8 years in a toxic relationship and now 6 years free, but I do find I'm really sensitive to toxic traits now and have a smaller group of friends because of it. Does anyone else feel like that? a good example : I hadnt seen some old school friends for 15 years and the reunion was fun but I was shocked at how many I considered to be 'toxic' One in particular was a close friend at school but she just acts out HPD traits. Im introverted so never cared about her always being loud and being centre stage ...I just assumed thats how it is. NOW!!!! now I see her and shes cold, calculating, spiteful and narcissistic. She was discussing her husband like he was a wallet, she wanted to know what we all did for a living, how big our house was, what car we owned .....! I saw the red flags and haven't picked up any of her calls to meet up again. Its a positive super power being able to actually see people now
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Lucy Spratt
Apr 04, 2022
In Narcissistic Abuse Discussions
Female bitchy traits seem to be socially accepted and I wonder how are we suppose to decide who is toxic and who is just a bitchy women? What traits can I watch out for?
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Lucy Spratt
Jan 25, 2022
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